Flip Flops on Christmas

Christmas is officially “over” by commercial standards. Yesterday while doing some returns I saw cute Valentine’s ‘must haves’ prominently displayed.  True confession: I am not quite ready to let go of the season.  Reality: I don’t have to.  Thankfully, we are going to celebrate Epiphany at our wonderful church and continue to ponder the mystery of Christ’s birth and our place in the story.  My friend Sarah sent me a beautiful poem in my Christmas card.  I thought I would share it:

A stable lamp is lighted,

Whose glow shall wake the sky;

The stars shall bend their voices,

And every stone shall cry.

And every stone shall cry.

And straw like gold shall shine;

A barn shall harbor heaven.

A stall become a shrine.

-Richard Wilbur

We had a wonderful Christmas with my parents and a post-Christmas trip to the beach with my parents and sister.  The big boys surfed for the first time, and loved it!  I’ll post pictures as soon as I receive them.

Sexual Addiction Resources

This month we wrote in our newsletter about the opportunity that we’ve had to be involved reaching out to students who are struggling with pornography addiction via Everystudent.comClint Clark, a counselor and support group leader in Colorado, provided the following list of resources for any of our readers who might share a similar struggle and want help.

SEXUAL ADDICTION RESOURCES

False Intimacy: Understanding the Struggle of Sexual Addiction, Harry
Schaumburg, NavPress, (1997).
Strength in Weakness: Healing Sexual and Relational Brokenness, Andrew
Comiskey, Intervarsity Press, (2003).
Out of the Shadows, Patrick Carnes, CompCare Publishing, (1988).
Don’t Call It Love, Patrick Carnes, Bantam (1991).
In the Shadows of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior,
Patrick Carnes, Hazelden Publishing & Educational Services ,(2001)
Addiction and Grace: Love and Spirituality in the Healing of Addictions, Gerald
May, Harper Collins, (1988).
No Stones: Women Redeemed from Sexual Shame, by Marnie C. Ferree, Xulon
Press, (2002).
Women, Sex, and Addiction: A Search for Love and Power, Charlotte Kasl,
Harper, (1990).
Where Do I Go From Here? Annette Comiskey, www.desertstream.org
Beauty and the Breach: Liberating Marriage from Sexual and Relational Sin,
Andrew Comiskey, www.desertstream.org.
Life Ministries, www.freedomeveryday.org, support group materials for men,
women, young men and spouses. Xulon Press.

SEXUAL ADDICTION RESOURCES
Practical Resources
Internet Filters and Blocks
www.bsafehome.com
www.cybersitter.com
www.cyberpatrol.com
Accountability Software
www.covenanteyes.com
www.x3church.com/x3watch/
Therapeutic and Support Resources
Support
Sexaholics Anonymous – www.sa.org
Celebrate Recovery – www.celebraterecovery.com
Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous – www.slaafws.org
Sex Addicts Anonymous – www.saa-recovery.org
S-Anon - www.sanon.org; Support for those affected by someone else’s
sexual behavior
Recovering Couples Anonymous – www.recovering-couples.org
Counselors
Clinton B. Clark, MA – Counselor and Support Group Facilitator; Areas
of focus: sexual compulsion/addiction, marriage counseling, sexual
abuse/trauma, individual therapy. clintclarkma@yahoo.com; 303.591.7675
Informational Resources
Designer Sex, Philip Yancey. Intervarsity Press, (2003).
The Pornography Trap: Setting Pastors and Laypersons Free from Sexual
Addiction, Mark Laaser and James Earl, Beacon Hill Press, (2002).
Faithful & True: Sexual Integirty In a Fallen World, Mark Laaser, Zondervan,
(1992).
Falling Forward: The Pursuit of Sexual Purity, Craig R. Lockwood, Desert Stream
Press, (2000).
www.clintclarkma.com

Cardboard Testimonies

My dear friend Kelly shared her cardboard testimony in October.  She’s towards the end…She’s my hero!!!

http://www.yourchurch.com/article/cardboard-testimonies/

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